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what you need to do when you’re feeling stuck and left behind
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How to overcome feeling stuck and left behind in life

How to stay present and active in the life of your friends
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How to stay present and active in all your friendships

Winning the war against your mind
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Impostor Syndrome and how to win over your mind

How to teach learn focus and self discipline
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How to teach yourself to be focused and self disciplined

5 ways to make an introvert uncomfortable at your party
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How to make introverts uncomfortable at your party

New year festivities
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How to develop new habits for the new year

How to end the year perfectly
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One important thing you need to do before the year ends

When the strong ones fall
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When the strong ones fall

When life looks bleak and you’re feeling lost
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Reasons why failing sometimes comes with benefits

Living for the future and not for the present
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Postponing today’s happiness to the future

Why bluntness sometimes breeds negativity
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Why you need to be kind over being blunt

Living in fear of what people would think about you
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Living in fear of what people think of you

Rediscovering your childhood passions
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Powerful ways rekindling childhood passions helps you know yourself more

What exactly steals our joy
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5 Powerful triggers of unhappiness in life

Feeling grateful for life, for love, and for my being
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How to Practice gratitude for your mental well being

Feeling Overwhelmed
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7 Helpful things to do when you’re feeling overwhelmed

The Pressing Fear of turning 30
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The Pressing Fear of turning 30

10 well paying jobs for introverts who like to work alone
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10 Well paying Jobs for introverts who like to work alone

7 traits that classify you as an introvert
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7 Power traits that reveal you are a true introvert

Withdrawing from social media
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Confessions of a Social Media addict

Birthday anxiety
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What it means to have Birthday anxiety

Mental complexes i struggle with as an introvert
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4 Complexes I struggle with as an Introvert

Getting over negative statements
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How do you get over negative statements

Anxiety while driving on your own
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Dealing with Anxiety while driving

Writing in a journal
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Journaling- the ultimate life hack

Becoming who you really are
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On Becoming who you really are

Reasons why you look unapproachable
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4 Solid reasons why you look unapproachable

Mental blocks and how to escape them
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Mental block and how to escape it

Self reflecting on things no one tells you about starting life over
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5 Things Nobody Tells you about Starting Life over

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4 foolproof ways to remind yourself of who you are when you’re feeling sunk
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4 Foolproof ways to remind yourself of who you are

by Adeupdated on April 4, 2022April 6, 2022Leave a Comment on 4 Foolproof ways to remind yourself of who you are

Sometimes you forget who you are. What you carry and what you are made of. These 4 solutions I’m going to be sharing are things that have worked for me. And I

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Living in fear of what people would think about you
Growth

Living in fear of what people think of you

by Adeupdated on October 11, 2021October 13, 2021Leave a Comment on Living in fear of what people think of you

Living your life according to the fear of what people would think stems from a culture of shame. A place where people project their own shame of

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What exactly steals our joy
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5 Powerful triggers of unhappiness in life

by Adeupdated on October 4, 2021September 1, 20212 Comments on 5 Powerful triggers of unhappiness in life

This is a question I ask myself and I’m sure a lot of people do too. One minute you are in a state of perpetual joy and happiness. The next minute something

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Why is everyone just so self centered
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Why is everyone just so self centered

by Adeupdated on March 22, 2022June 23, 2021Leave a Comment on Why is everyone just so self centered

I think humans are naturally self centered. I might be wrong but i think our DNA / Physical structure is innately self pleasing. From my point of view though, i think there can be good “self-centeredness” ( if there is a word like that ) and…

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Self reflecting on things no one tells you about starting life over
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5 Things Nobody Tells you about Starting Life over

by Adeupdated on May 15, 2026June 3, 20216 Comments on 5 Things Nobody Tells you about Starting Life over

What do you know about starting over? That feeling of not being enough, not doing enough. That nagging feeling of unfulfillment, clouded with thoughts of how to start life afresh. The judgement in the eyes of people around you.

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The power that lies in affirmations and manifesting your dreams
Life

Why you need to take affirming your dreams seriously

by Adeupdated on May 16, 2022May 18, 2022Leave a Comment on Why you need to take affirming your dreams seriously

Now I don’t know what you believe in, whether it’s in God like I do or in the universe. Or whether it’s in a higher power or power or cosmic energy. What I

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How to handle creative blocks
Life

How to handle creative blocks

by Adeupdated on May 9, 2022May 11, 2022Leave a Comment on How to handle creative blocks

Is this what it feels like to experience writer’s block ? That feeling of not knowing / having no clue what to write or communicate like you used to. That

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How to find clarity and a sense of purpose with life
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How to find clarity and sense of purpose with life

by Adeupdated on May 11, 2022May 4, 2022Leave a Comment on How to find clarity and sense of purpose with life

First, you need to clarify things in your mind. Think about all the things you’re focusing on that is sapping all your strength and eliminate them

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Review: It ends with us by Colleen Hoover
Life

Book Review – It ends with us

by Adeupdated on April 11, 2022April 13, 2022Leave a Comment on Book Review – It ends with us

It ends with us is a triggering book about physical abuse and domestic violence in relationships. I can say this is my best book from Colleen Hoover so far…

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Book review- Verity by Colleen Hoover
Life

Book Review – Verity by Colleen Hoover

by Adeupdated on March 28, 2022March 30, 2022Leave a Comment on Book Review – Verity by Colleen Hoover

A heart racing, chilling and terror inducing book. It got me both glued and terrified at the same time. Even reading it at night was kind of a big challenge for

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How the speed of the world affects your mind
Life

How the speed of the world is affecting your mind

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022March 23, 2022Leave a Comment on How the speed of the world is affecting your mind

Looking at how fast paced the world seems to be these days, I can’t help but ask myself who the world is racing with. Or where it is racing to. Looking at how

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Living a life of regrets and what if
Life

Living a life full of regrets and what if

by Adeupdated on March 14, 2022March 16, 2022Leave a Comment on Living a life full of regrets and what if

Life sometimes can be a story consisting of the internal battles of the “if only’s” and “what if’s”…. If I knew then, what I know now, I would have made

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Reasons why your self identity should not be tied to your job
Life

Reasons why your career should never define your identity

by Adeupdated on March 1, 2022March 2, 2022Leave a Comment on Reasons why your career should never define your identity

What determines who we are. What tells the story of our identity and our whole being. Is it defined by the career we choose or something else entirely?

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The Flat Share book review
Life

Book Review- The Flat Share

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022February 23, 2022Leave a Comment on Book Review- The Flat Share

I love how packed the book is and how well it dealt with lots of hard issues. Emotional abuse in relationships being one of them. This got me to think about

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Book review - The Undomestic goddess
Life

Book Review – The Undomestic goddess

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022February 16, 2022Leave a Comment on Book Review – The Undomestic goddess

This book was set in the early 2,000’s when technology was not yet as advanced as it is today. Think Blackberry days and you’ll get the drift. And it’s

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Why people sometimes feel lonely even when amongst friends
Life

Why you sometimes feel lonely amongst friends

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022January 26, 2022Leave a Comment on Why you sometimes feel lonely amongst friends

Sometimes, people only want to be friends with you because of some perceived type of success they noticed in you. Not because they genuinely like you or what

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Book review: The girl with the Louding voice
Life

Review – The girl with the Louding voice

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022December 4, 2021Leave a Comment on Review – The girl with the Louding voice

Adunni the protagonist of the story, a 14 years old girl, finally got herself freed from the claws of child marriage only to be sold off into slavery. From one

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Blinded by privilege
Life

How being privileged can totally blind you

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022December 1, 2021Leave a Comment on How being privileged can totally blind you

Why do we sometimes choose to hurl hurtful words at people if we have never lived one single day in their life. We’ve never seen nor experienced

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A spark of light review
Life

Book Review – A spark of light

by Adeupdated on March 21, 2022November 27, 2021Leave a Comment on Book Review – A spark of light

The story line is centered around conception, foetus abortion, the choices we make around these topics and the roles they play in our lives.

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